Restoring Happiness and Fulfillment in Couples and Individuals

Do you feel as though your relationship has gotten off track? Do you miss the closeness you once shared with your partner? Have you lost touch with yourself, letting your priorities and goals go to the wayside? As an expert in couples counseling and individual coaching, I know I can help you.

You can restore your relationship and yourself. Long lasting change is possible! I work with couples and individuals who want to understand how they got off track and learn new skills to help them feel closer, happier, and more fulfilled. With some small changes, you can communicate more effectively and bring back the meaning and happiness to your relationships.

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What are the benefits of Couples Counseling or Individual Coaching?

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    Couples learn their patterns of behavior, or "cycle," and how to stop it. We often have the same disagreements more than once, and those disagreements usually end the same way. Couples counseling will help you discover what's really under the same fight you keep having, change the way you communicate, and help you learn what both you and your partner can do to change your cycle. By understanding the cycle you get caught in, you can change it, and have a much deeper, more secure, and more loving relationship.

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    Learn what you need to feel secure in your relationship.What makes you feel good, loved, happy, and safe? Knowing the answer is half of the solution to colving your relationship challenges. Translating these needs to your partner in a way that he can act on them is the other half. In couples therapy, we will explore what triggers you, what makes you feel pushed away, as well as what brings your closer to your partner.

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    Discover what your partner needs from your relationship. Every couple struggles from time to time and these challenges are a normal part of any relationship. Do you know why your partner gets angry when they do? Do you know what pushes them away from you? The answer may not be so simple. Learning about your partner's core values may reveal why you end up in conflict. A better understanding of your partner means a closer, more loving relationship.

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    Make the changes in your life that will bring you happiness. As you think about your life now, are you where you want to be? Do you wake up feeling good about each day and looking forward to what lies ahead? If not, let's talk and explore what's missing from your life and your relationships that keep you from enjoying the life you deserve.

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    Understand yourself like never before. Whether coming to individual counseling, marriage counsling or group therapy, you will learn a tremendous amount about yourself in the process. You'll discover what self-defeating beliefs are putting you at odds with your long-term goals, and we'll help leave those negative beliefs in order to reach your high potential.

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